10 THINGS
Rules of the Game:
1. The tagged victim must come up with 10 different points of their perfect lover.
2. Need to mention gender of target.
3. Tag 8 victims to join this game & leave a comment saying they’ve been tagged.
4. If tagged again, there’s no need to post a 2nd time.
Now granted these are not requirements although some are they are merely something I guess I look for in a girl. Now it’s not often I sit down to think about this its more like I just think about it but I never really write stuff on it. Unlike some people I know, they have a list, hahahah but that’s all good. Could be a good idea incase you forget what you want =) I would never expect a person to ever fulfill all these because I know I could never myself. I SURE AS HECK AM NOT PERFECT. I got a lot to work on!
So I guess here goes nothing…10 things, hmmm….(edit: I mean’t prefer not perfect christian girl, sorries)
1. Christian - It’s pretty strict for me, its not that I am not open minded or anything but I really perfer a Christian girl. Sharing our faith together is important and learning to grow together according to God’s great plan. It’s awesome to be able to share together what God is doing in our lives
2. Loves Family – Dude, family is everything to me! There isn’t anything I wouldn’t do for any of them, I love them so much. So a family oriented girl is always cool because I love family. I think that’s the beautiful part of getting married too. You marry the family and then you have a bigger family =) to have fun with. Now, granted there is no perfect family and we all have family drama (I know I do but it draws you closer together). Someday I’d like to have a family of my own too, so shes got to love children(children haters is a turn off because I love kids)
3. Attractive - Now the definition of what this world defines to us what is attractive can definitely be a false image. The media tells us how we should look like and what we should do to ourselves in order to be beautiful. I’m not saying don’t take care of yourself and not shower or something because that’s just totally off the edge. Someone who doesn’t always put such an emphasis on trying to make themselves pretty to the worlds standard. I want to be attracted to her heart and who she is as a person. Physical attraction is always a factor but its also not the largest.
4. Open-Minded - Yes, definitely. I almost have a low tolerance for very ignorant people especially when it comes to racial or social injustice issues. (grace, grace)Narrow mindedness can be a turn off easily. It’s hard for me to get passed that if that person isn’t willing to change (not for me but for the better of herself). Like I said, we are not perfect and we all have things to learn and there is grace we need to extend to each other. I also hate when people make assumptions about different ethnicity, buggs the crap out of me. No no to stereo types.
5. Positive Attitude – I absolutely thrive off a person who is positive or at least try to be as positive as possible. Somehow their energy transfers to be and we have this huge energyball, hahaha. My mom is to thank for always giving me a positive perspective in life. Someone who is a mood killer, ahhh I don’t know, i don’t really like that…I like high levels of energy because I am crazy and enjoy being around those who can channel things in a positive way even if the outcome may not be positive.
6. Team Work Relationship – Now I may need to define this but I think I’ll get right into this and you’ll probably know what I mean. Now a relationships is not a single player game now is it. It involves 2 players of course. I believe that we are a team (especially if you are married); now I might be getting ahead of myself here but I think about this. I don’t ever believe in girls assuming rolls in society that are stereotypical. I believe we share in the rolls together. Which means, I get to change diapers, dishes, cooking, clean and whatever else couples do, hahaha. You are in it together so its a team effort. I never assume the roll that males have to dominate or lead the relationship. If not, ill adapt to whatevers. (you should see my parents, quiet funny)
7. Challenges – I think I like a challenging person. Who wants to be with someone exactly like themselves, that’s just boring and I not right. Well, it sure as hell sounds boring to me. I’m up for challenges and challenging each other on the road of life. I’ve told my friends before that I think I need a girl who can give me a little push/nudge when needed. I find myself sometimes coming all the way to the edge but sometimes I need that person to give me a little push so I can go for it or just jump, hahaha. Life is exciting, Live while you live.
8. Sense of humor – well, you don’t have to be a comedian or anything but I sure do enjoy joking around and having a good laugh. Laugher is good for your health and soul. Someone who can at least laugh with me I don’t want to be laughing by myself ahahha. Eh, I do that anyway so shush!
9. I love a girl who smiles…makes me want to smile even more…its contagious I tell you =)
10. Caring - Caring is huge, someone who cares for people and not just her family only or her own life. A huge heart is definitely attractive. Someone who puts other people before themselves. Someone who also cares about me too =) Someone who cares about what they can give to that person rather than what can I get from that person or relationship.
Nobody is perfect and in my opinion you will never have your perfect someone because we are all broken people. We need Jesus to fix all our crap we have but learning to fix all that crap with someone is even better. =)
